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Do you beat yourself up for still having 'stuff' - painful reactions, fear, trauma, repeating patterns, resistance?

I often see this with my clients and peers in the transformation community.

Just how much we judge ourselves or feel like a fraud for 'having to' engage in our own personal process of transformation. 

I want to share a different perspective here ...

... to disrupt what can be a toxic norm in the transformation community ...

... that may cause you to hold back until you are somehow perfect and beyond reproach. 

When you watch a master practitioner like a concert violinist in action, you only see the end result.

You don't see the 10,000 hours of committed practice that created that one magical moment.

You become a master of transformation through the same step-by-step process.

How many years have you been engaged in a path of personal growth?

How much time, energy and money have you invested in it? 

...

I sat at my laptop, my mind utterly blank. Like I was suddenly surrounded by thick fog.

Aargh! I knew what I wanted to say. Why was my brain frozen? Why was there a tight fist in my solar plexus?

Distractions called to me. YouTube. Facebook. Clean the toilet. Let’s do that now. Anything to get away.

The Frozen One shows up in many ways.

If you struggle with next-level visibility, there's a reason it's hard.

It’s not just you. It’s not just me. It’s all of us. 

Have you asked yourself:
'Why do I have so much resistance to stepping boldly forward to share my deepest wisdom? I know I have a calling. I sense my purpose. The world would be a better place if more people knew what I know.' 

I have. Many times. 

What I've discovered is that visibility blocks exist on many levels - personal, collective, ancestral and soul levels. 

You may have done deep work on the personal level - with your limiting beliefs, painful past experiences, your...

Everything has its season. A time to rest and a time to play. 

How do you know when you are in resistance and when you are aligned with your own unique rhythm - your divine timing?

You may resist resting, trying to push through even though your energy is depleted and needs renewal. 

You may resist playing full out - taking inspired action to step forward, take risks and connect. 

How can you trust your own timing - not pushing and not holding back? 

Watch this video to:

• Understand the value of fully embracing each season of your inner cycle, so you can harness its gifts for potent creation. 
• Discover the unhealthy ways you may be flipping between pushing and stagnation, rather than aligning with your divine timing. 
• Learn how to recognise your resistance and shift your habits of hiding or striving into habits of shining. 

Need some help with aligning your next-level visibility? Book a Visibility Breakthrough Session chat with me today - click...

How often do you plug into your sources of power?

When you are disconnected from the sources that light you up, it's hard to find your flow.

Voices of doubt creep in. Fears take over and your habits of hiding have the upper hand.

You may find your distracting, procrastinating, getting off track - especially when you are wanting to step into your next level of visibility.

In this video, I talk about the habits of shining! The things that light you up, fill you up, nourish you and bring you back to your most resourceful self.

Discover your most potent sources of power and strengthen your connection with the deep well of joy, wisdom and resilience they provide.

Watch this video to:

• Get clear on the various sources of your power
• Understand how essential they are to supporting you to show up as a visionary leader
• Identify which of your sources need to be valued and cultivated so you can show up with light-hearted ease.

This training took place inside my free Visibility for...

You can’t fake safety. (I can’t anyway.) 

My energy freezes. 

Protective behaviours kick in. Mindless browsing. Chocolate. Easy distractions. 

The contraction takes me into my head. Confusion clouds my clarity. I doubt myself and my next steps. 

It's hard to feel my flow, where my energy wants to take me. 

Pushing through mostly doesn't work (for me). 

What shakes your foundations of safety?

This year I've been faced with 3 close family members going on unexpected cancer journeys.  Encountering evidence of darkness in our world that shook me to my core. Feeling like Neo in The Matrix waking up after taking the red pill. 

To keep showing up through life's challenges, especially as a shy, sensitive person, I've had to learn how to generate my own safety. 

This helps me (and my clients) to melt the frozenness and create visibility flow!

Watch this video to:

• Understand the power of taking...

Energy never lies.

It's easy to be doing 'all the things' to attract people, and yet be energetically unavailable (or even repelling them) without knowing it.

How can you become magnetic to your people and truly OPEN to receive those who would love to experience your gifts?

Watch this video to:

• Discover what full-spectrum visibility is and how you can cultivate it.
• Understand what you may be doing to energetically repel your people and how you can become magnetic to them.
• Activate your radiance to transform how you show up.

I also share a powerful poem that created magnetic radiance for a participant in my Magnetic Presence program - and how that enabled her to shine and share her beautiful magic with even more people. 

If you'd love to go even deeper into this topic, join me for the Poetry Breakthrough Experience 5-day challenge! We start Monday 11 October.
Find out more and register here.

This training took place inside my free Visibility for Visionary...

Do you ever feel frozen, as through you can't move forward? 

Lost in a freezing fog of paralysis where every step feels like wading through a muddy swamp. 

Pushing doesn't work. And after a while binging, browsing or whatever other booby traps catch you don't feel so great either. 

Why does this happen and where does it come from? 

In this Visionary Voices Poetry Dive I share my experience of chronic invisibility.

How for years I thought there was something wrong with me.

What I finally discovered about the deep, ancient, collective roots of our visibility blocks. 

And I share a few powerful poems and stories that reveal how we can heal and transmute them. 

Watch this video to …

• Discover the deep, often hidden roots of our visibility blocks.
• Explore what becomes possible when we reclaim the magic of our exiled parts.
• Experience how poetry magic can touch and melt personal and collective wounds that cause us to freeze rather than flow.

If...

Meet the midwife behind my magic!

I'm so excited to introduce you to Lynn Hord, my business mentor and alignment genie. She has a special gift for helping soulful business women birth their magical offerings and communicate through messaging that feels so aligned. 

She helped me to birth

• my Facebook group - Visibility for Visionary Leaders - which is such a precious community to me. 
• my Visibility Breakthrough Sessions - deep dive conversations to bring clarity to your next steps.
• my signature talk - The 3 Keys to Visibility for Visionary Leaders - which brought so many wonderful new coaching clients. 
• my first challenge - The Poetry Breakthrough Experience - which felt like delivering a transformational retreat.
• and my first 7-week program - Magnetic Presence: embody your essence - which brought life-changing transformation to an amazing group. 

Watch this video to learn from Lynn's genius and discover how to:

• Release perfectionism and ignite your...

‘For the rebels and the misfits, the black sheep and the outsiders. For the refugees, the orphans, the scapegoats, and the weirdos. For the uprooted, the abandoned, the shunned and invisible ones.

May you recognize with increasing vividness that you know what you know.

May you give up your allegiances to self-doubt, meekness, and hesitation.

May you be willing to be unlikeable, and in the process be utterly loved.

May you be impervious to the wrongful projections of others, and may you deliver your disagreements with precision and grace.

May you see, with the consummate clarity of nature moving through you, that your voice is not only necessary, but desperately needed to sing us out of this muddle.

May you feel shored up, supported, entwined, and reassured as you offer yourself and your gifts to the world.

May you know for certain that even as you stand by yourself, you are not alone.’

Toko-pa Turner, from Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home

Do you feel called...